The focus of the submissions on this site is LGBTQ weddings, engagements, and families. The weddings can be anything from civil unions to traditional ceremonies to backyard commitment ceremonies – however you celebrate your union, feel free to share it!
For weddings, I’d love shots of getting ready, decoration details, DIY projects, guests, reception fun, and especially first looks!

For anything else, photos of the planning, invitations and/or any other paper goods, engagement shoots, dress try-ons, whatever you think might inspire another planner. The only thing that I ask is that if you send me information about a vendor, that the vendor is gay-friendly.

If you’d like to share your family photo shoot with me, definitely let me know if you’d prefer if the children’s name(s) remain private. I completely respect your wish to keep your family’s name anonymous.

Ready to submit?

I accept all photographer submissions through Two Bright Lights:

If you are a two bright lights member, feel free to submit to me via their website or click the image below:

If you are a bride, groom, broom, any other self-identified one half of a couple who just got engaged or married, feel free to email me at: between 10-40 images if it’s a wedding. For engagement sessions and other wedding related photo shoots a selection of 5-20 images is great. Please include a brief story of your history – how you met, what was the proposal like? Feel free to include anything else about your story.  It would be great if you could list of all vendors hired in the wedding/shoot.
How soon will i get back to you?
I will respond to you within a few weeks.





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  1. Natasha Barrientos
    Aug 05, 2014 @ 16:44:17

    Hi, ,my name is Natasha & I am engaged to my amazing Fiancé megan. We just had our engagement party & photo shoot not too long ago. I was interested in knowing how I can subscribe to your page, I absolutely love your blog. I am rarely new to blogging & I’m looking forward to growing. I am focusing on pretty much my story & my road to a same sex marriage. Looking forward to your response, thanks you 🙂

  2. forrealequalityweddings
    Aug 08, 2014 @ 14:10:17

    Hi Natasha! Thanks so much for your compliments!
    You can follow my blog by submitting your email in the “follow me” box on the right hand side of the page. I’d also love to see your photos if you would like to share them with me – email me a